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Intimate Relationships & High TQ
Intimate Relationships & High TQ
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The Moves Nobody Taught You
You're not bad at relationships.
You have low TQ.
An Introductory Webinar to Transactional Intelligence™ (TQ) in Relationships
A Private Cohort for Couples & Singles Seeking High TQ
Why do even the most caring, self-aware people find themselves stuck in the same patterns — despite genuine effort, good intentions, and real love? It's not who you are. It's a skill you haven't been taught yet.
You care deeply. You show up. You try.
Yet still…
- You agree to something, then quietly resent it.
- You give more than you receive — and say nothing.
- You sense something's off, but can't name exactly what. You've been managing the relationship instead of having it.
- You haven't set the boundary because you don't want to seem difficult.
- Something happened that was never named. It's been shaping things ever since.
- You've been the reliable one so long, you can't remember agreeing to it.
- You told yourself it was a grey area. It wasn't that grey. You knew it wasn't right.
- You told yourself it wasn't your call. You've drifted from something you said mattered to you.
The missing capability isn't love, effort, or self-awareness. It's not a personality flaw or a wound that needs healing.
It's Transactional Intelligence™ (TQ) — and low TQ is more common than you think.
TQ is the ability to read, navigate, and re-engage the human exchanges that determine whether a relationship actually moves — toward honesty, closeness, and real trust.
Relationships aren't events. They're like dancers in step with one another.
You don't navigate terrain by deciding once at the start. You read. You adjust. You re-engage the whole way through. You hold the destination while responding to what's actually in front of you — aware that the other person is navigating their own pressures and blind spots too.
The question isn't whether you're in a transaction. You always are. The question is whether you're navigating it — or just along for the ride.
In this warm, high-impact 60-minute session, you'll discover how to:
✔ Why the same conversation keeps ending the same way. Recognize the predictable stages every exchange moves through — and the specific moment where connection quietly breaks down.
✔ The pattern you run when a relationship gets hard — and what it’s been costing you. See your characteristic move clearly, and for the first time have a name for it that isn’t a character flaw.
✔ How to name what’s been going unnamed. Identify the hidden relational breakdowns creating distance, resentment, and disconnection — even between people who love each other.
✔ Agreements that actually hold. Make requests, set limits, and build commitments with the kind of clarity that lets both people breathe — and trust.
✔ The difference between managing a relationship and being in one. Shift from running things on autopilot to being genuinely present — responsive, honest, and engaged.
✔ High TQ as a practice, not a personality. People with High TQ deepen connection not by becoming someone different — but by learning the choreography. You’re not broken. You just weren’t taught this.
